Thursday, December 11, 2008
Wait till you hear this....
These are the things that the doctor decided:
1) DD's medicine needed to be slightly increased.
2) DD needs to see a behavioral therapist for counseling.
3) DD has now also been diagnosed with anxiety based on the doctor's observations of her and how I am describing different situations with her.
4) (And this one really gets me ticked) DD might need to have a "different choice for education" than homeschool!!!!! Can you believe it!? I just told myself to let it go at the time and not argue with the doctor. She said with DD being homeschooled she (dr) has no way of knowing if she is learning properly or how intelligent she is!!!!!!!! She (dr) says that if she were in public schools, they would do intelligence testing and she (dr) could use that information. I explained to her that DD would be getting tested in January (scantron) to help the teacher and I assess how she is doing with what is being taught and I barely got that out of my mouth when she said that wasn't good enough! And that's what she had just said! I also told her that there is formal state testing in March each year and because I didn't know the name of that test, she discredited that and said it wouldn't work either. Then she said after DD took the tests for me to bring the results to her.
(Following stuff may be repetative if you read other posts of mine) I also know that being in the inner city School District we live in, there's no way they are going to pay for some "intelligence testing" just because a doctor ordered it!!!! This is one of the poorest districts I have ever heard of, and I'm not trying to put myself (or kids) above others, but they don't even do hot lunches or have a kitchen in every school!!!! That is sub-standard to what I feel is "normal" and "acceptable" for this day and age. Also, they are still, as far as I know, bussing everyone from jr high and under every day, even those students that are within walking distance, because they don't want the children to get stuck in the crossfire -LITERALLY- of two gang wars right here in the city!!! I simply CANNOT send my daughter and WILLNOT send my daughter to public schools just because some doctor wants her to go!!!! In good conscience, I cannot send her into a literal shooting spree that might happen. ARGH! (**Note: This stuff about the school is not heresay, I have checked my facts sheerly because I could not believe what I had been hearing, and found that it was true!)
That's not to mention that comparing this school district to other school districts around here that are rated as "excellent" the one we live in is almost 2 full years behind - by that I mean that when a student I know was pulled out of 8th grade in the district we live in, she only tested at a 6th grade level in a neighboring school district! ARGH! Also, considering DD is having some learning difficulties, I feel that, paired with all this other stuff and she would go straight down the tubes!! I love homeschooling. Yes, it can be hard, but I know that I am giving her better schooling than what she would be getting otherwise. I'm pretty sure that if DD was going to B&M ("Brick and Mortar school), and she didn't pass a test, that the teacher wouldn't re-teach or continue to work with her until she DD picked it up. I have the ability to do that. And I know she won't be passed through to 3rd grade if she's not ready, but she can repeat (for instance) math, if she needs to and not be held back and bored in the other subjects.
I did inform the doctor that DD was getting regular help through Title 1 for her math, and that it is a state recognized program for children that struggle that is even in public schools.
Truthfully, she turned a deaf ear to me the first appointment in June when I told her that we homeschooled. You may know that kind of person. I call them uneducated about homeschool, and I don't think there's much you can do to convince them otherwise. And I don't think its worth my time, either. I didn't realize the scope of how much she was against homeschool until yesterday, though! She referred us to a counselor for the behavioral therapy that she (dr) thinks will be able to prescribe medicine and take over her entire care, thus keeping us from having to go back to that neurologist.
the #5) and las thing she said was that a "real teacher" would be able to better know what DD needs than I would. CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?!?! She must not have any children, or I'm quite sure she wouldn't have made such a callous comment!! In my book, nobody knows what's better for the welfare of the child than the parent! (provided the parent is a responsible, loving one that provides a good nurturing home, which obveously I am doing, or I wouldn't continually drive her an hour one way to these appointments!)
Ok. I feel better. At least a little bit. As always, I welcome comments. :)
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Calling all Homeschoolers....
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
An Editorial Retraction of sorts
My thoughts on the President-Elect
2: I will continually and daily pray for the president-elect and this country. Our country needs prayer and salvation. Just because the person most christians wanted for President didn't get elected doesn't mean that we've lost - not by a long shot. Nothing's been "lost" there is still hope for our country. I will not mourn the decision of my neighbors and others I know. God is in control.
3: The time is now, people!! These are end times we are living in. I am feeling convicted even as I type this to get this out. This is not my normal personality. But I cannot keep quiet. If you don't know Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savior and have a relationship with Him, if you haven't asked Christ to forgive you of your sins and be Lord of your life, you need to do this NOW. More so now than ever. I implore you, dear family and friends of mine who have not yet made that decision to seek God and what His plans are for your life. Simply going to church on Christmas and Easter is not enough. Church attendance is not enough. That's not what this is about. Its not even about one party winning and the other losing. Its about winning souls for Christ! The song "I Will Not Be Moved" by Natalie Grant sums up my current feelings:
I have been the wayward child
I have acted out
I have questioned Sovereignty
And had my share of doubt
And though sometimes my prayers feel like
They're bouncing off the sky
The hand I hold won't let me go
And is the reason why...
[Chorus:]I will stumble
I will fall down
But I will not be moved
I will make mistakes
I will face heartache
But I will not be moved
On Christ the Solid Rock I stand
All other ground is sinking sand
I will not be moved
Bitterness has plagued my heart
Many times before
My life has been like broken glass
And I have kept the score
Of all my shattered dreams and though it seemed
That I was far too gone
My brokenness helped me to see
It's grace I'm standing on
[Chorus]
And the chaos in my life
Has been a badge I've worn
Though I have been torn
I will not be moved
[Chorus]
I welcome your thoughts and comments on this matter. This is something I have wanted to share for a long time, but have always been afraid to. Not any more.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Why we homeschool
1) pastor talking about spiritual warfare and being ready, having your kids ready to do battle any time, any where.
2)pastor talking about being involved with your kids' school and knowing what they are "into"
3)the school district we live in has a rate of 81% of the kids in the high school come from dysfunctional homes
4) I was recently made aware of an issue (that I doubt is resolved) regarding kids finding dirty needles in the bushes and collecting them and then stabbing as many of the kids that they can, as well as another incident
5) of 4 girls beating up 1 boy while the teacher stood right beside them all and just watched.
6) when a student was removed from that school system and placed in a neighboring one, she had to take a placement test and turn in work that she had done at her old school. The results were astounding. She was in 8th grade at the old school, but tested only at a 6th grade level in the new school. And the new school is the area where we used to live. So they are pretty average as far as requirements of students in comparison to other states.
Through all of this, I feel in my spirit that God is saying: See. Because of this, I am making a way for you. I will give you strength. I will give you knowledge and resources. I will give you recreational time/rest/relaxation that you need as a mom. And He has! DD has made some great advances in math this year. Was never her favorite subject before, but now she says she "loves" math. She was able to join a program for kids struggling with math and she has come out of her shell in the way they teach. They actually do online conferences 2-4 times a week where they can talk live. And, she willingly joined the math club last week! She loves to read, and is reading at about a 3rd grade level. Thats the beauty of Ohio Virtual Academy - you can be in more than one grade at once. Depending on where you're at. Her math, for the most part, is 1st grade, but she doesn't know it. She is still doing the curriculum for 2nd grade math, but the extra studying she gets is all stuff from last year that she should have learned or would have learned at the beginning of the school year, if it hadn't been for her aweful teacher! I know homeschooling is not for everyone. I definitely don't condemn anyone who chooses public or private or charter schools. You have to do what is right for your own family and your own circumstances. I feel that God has called me to teach for this season. I just wanted to reiterate that. I don't want you to feel like I'm against public schools. We had such a bad time at her school for a year and a half. Plus you can see what a terrible system it is where we live now!
DS #2 does a funny
DS #2: "can you see my fingers, mommy?"
Me: "Yes."
DS #2: "I can see your pants."
Me: (laughing) "Ok. Stop looking under the door, you peeker."
DS #2: "I can't see your feet, mommy. I NEED to see your feet!"
(Silence)
DS #2: (who is now looking through the keyhole that we (obveously) need to block) "Mommy!! Why aren't you pulling up your pants! You need to pull up your pants, mommy! I need you to pull up your pants! Hurry up!"
After all that, he decided he didn't have to go potty, he just wanted to be with me. ROTFL! Life is never boring with kids, is it?
DS #1
And, Curt and I celebrated our 8th wedding anniversary yesterday! 8 wonderful years! We are looking forward to celebrating many many more!
On being 29....
In Him we live and move and have our being,Chalice
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
nugget of truth
2 Timothy 4:1-4
I can't impress this on you too strongly. God is looking over your shoulder. Christ himself is the Judge, with the final say on everyone, living and dead. He is about to break into the open with his rule, so proclaim the Message with intensity; keep on your watch. Challenge, warn, and urge your people. Don't ever quit. Just keep it simple. You're going to find that there will be times when people will have no stomach for solid teaching, but will fill up on spiritual junk food--catchy opinions that tickle their fancy. They'll turn their backs on truth and chase mirages. But you-- keep your eye on what you're doing; accept the hard times along with the good; keep the Message alive; do a thourough job as God's servant.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Where in the world have I been?!
Friday, September 19, 2008
My new niece!
Here's the proud mommy and daddy. This is their first. I am sooo proud of them, every time I think about them, I start to cry! Of course, those of you who really know me know that I cry at the drop of a pin anyways!
God's Blessings to you and your little family, little Bro! Love Ya!
Friday, September 12, 2008
DD loves--mornings??
On another bright note, DD is making improvements in soccer! Last night, she took possession of the ball twice!!! She is quite a bit smaller than most of the other kids on her team, and has been afraid of the ball. She is learning that little can be good. Its been so cute to see her run. She has a hard time keeping up with the team running-wise. But she tries her best we are proud of her regardless if she gets a goal or not! **(by the way, to justify my having company on a school day, this was set up 3 weeks ago -- back when I thought my life was easy and I had it all together! And my friend is a SAHM, but runs her own photography business while her kids are in school, so her calandar is very packed.)**
Can she do it all?
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Two fun things
One good highlight today was getting to play with a huge slug! Probably at least 5 inches long! Then, there was another one that DH accidentally squashed so DS2 carried it around in his hands. yuck! Then both boys were poking it with a stick, while I lit the grill for dinner. All of a sudden, DS2 says "Fire it, Momma!" I was not surprised, so then both boys were yelling "Fire it! Fire it!" "Burn it Burn it!" Remember this slug was already dead! It was cool watching their reactions. That's one huge thing I absolutely LOVE about being a SAHM (stay at home mommy) and homeschool teacher -- I get to see the kids' reactions and relive my childhood through them.
The second good highlight was my friend helped me ("the HTML-challenged-person-whom-insists-on-using-technology") arrange my stuff on Facebook so that there would be a link to this blog. (Thanks Sarah! I owe you one!) :)
school today
Barack Obama making fun of the Bible
I must say that I am not very knowledgeable in regards to politics, and although I consider myself a Republican, I do not just jump on the Republican bandwagon. There are a few issues that are of importance to me, so when I hear the candidates views on them, then I will vote. However, this video shows why any christian should vote for ANYONE other than Obama. Do we need any more proof people?! I have to say that I am still not quite convinced to vote for McCain, although his choice for VP, Sarah Palin, seems to be a great one. I just don't know if McCain will do a good enough job for our country. I'm still waiting to hear more from the Independants before I make my final decision. Did anyone watch the RNC last night? I liked what Sandy Treadwell, New York's National Committeeman who is running for the U.S. House of Representatives in New York's 20th congressional district said in regards to Bristol Palin being a pregnant teen; "We're going agree with Sarah and Todd on this family problem by answering it with more love. Love is the only answer in this case. Our prayers are with her [Sarah] and she will make a great Grandma." That just struck a chord with me. It is not often that someone in a political position will speak so Christ-like. I personally think its stupid to try to lambaste Sarah for this. Her daughter is 17. No matter what, you can raise your children right, they are still going to make choices for their own. Things happen, and I have to say that this shouldn't have anything to do with her mother's running for VP! Hello!? How many other teen pregnancies are there every day in the world? So Bristol made a mistake. It should not impact the election like it has been. The fact that her daughter got pregnant doesn't mean that she [Sarah] can't make good decisions or help run the country! So get over it, people.
Ok. I'm done. I'll get down off my soapbox. For now.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
The First Day
Communicative: moving with muscle tension/relaxing. As in fit-throwing, acting like the hulk, laughing, etc. Anything that would be flexion/relaxion of the abdominal muscles. When the muscles are flexing, the herniated part of the intestine pops out. Which was gross, but not like bloody horror movie gross, just abnormal "eeeww!" Well, you probably already know that a Hernia is a small tear in the muscle wall. and Hydrocele means fluid around one or both testicles. Cause: before a baby is born, the fluid can move freely from abdominal area to the scrotum and back again. When they are born, the muscle seals itself off. Sometimes, it can pop back open. The only way to keep that from happening continually is for them to stitch that tear shut. Plan: get an ultrasound of the scrotum on thurs morning, then follow up with him in the ofc next Tues at which point we will schedule the surgery. Dr said that he can run and play like a normal boy with no restrictions unless he has pain or problems urinating. So, ds1 is excited he gets to play outside. :)
Tomorrow will be another new day!
My 3rd attempt
The definition of Exuberant is: "Full of joyful, unrestrained high spirits". And synonyms include: 'ebullient, effervescent, sparkling.' Wow! It would be totally awesome if someone could say any of those things about me by the end of the schoolyear! I have many things I would like to accomplish that include personal goals, as well as family ones. You'll hear more about them in the days and weeks to come, I'm sure.